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by Dexter
Wed Jan 10, 2024 1:52 am
Forum: Shunning and Isolation
Topic: Contact with Family still in CF
Replies: 18
Views: 6495

Re: Contact with Family still in CF

I always appreciate your comments Helen. I still can't fathom the severity of your family's shunning. I love that you still write knowing that nothing has changed in 20+ years. I'm reminded of Galatians 6:9:

‭‭Let’s not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season if we don’t give up.
by Dexter
Tue Jan 09, 2024 9:59 am
Forum: Library
Topic: The Impact of Cults on Childhood Development
Replies: 12
Views: 11888

Re: The Impact of Cults on Childhood Development

Here are two verses I never heard preached at BCF: Fathers, don’t provoke your children, so that they won’t be discouraged. Colossians‬ ‭3:21‬ You fathers, don’t provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. Ephesians‬ ‭6:4‬ Instead I copped this doo...
by Dexter
Mon Jan 08, 2024 11:51 pm
Forum: Library
Topic: The Impact of Cults on Childhood Development
Replies: 12
Views: 11888

Re: The Impact of Cults on Childhood Development

A quote from the above article: Markowitz and Halperin (1984) discuss the vulnerability and abuse of children in cults. A child’s parent, who is in a dependent, regressive state due to being under the influence of the group’s leader(s), “is prone toward abusive practices” (p. 154) and power over chi...
by Dexter
Mon Jan 08, 2024 7:05 pm
Forum: Library
Topic: The Impact of Cults on Childhood Development
Replies: 12
Views: 11888

Re: The Impact of Cults on Childhood Development

More info on development of children raised in cults: Born or Raised in Closed, High-Demand Groups: Developmental Considerations Leona Furnari, L.C.S.W. Link below: https://cultrecovery101.com/born-or-raised-in-closed-high-demand-groups-developmental-considerations/ A couple of sources cited in the ...
by Dexter
Mon Jan 08, 2024 6:21 pm
Forum: Shunning and Isolation
Topic: Contact with Family still in CF
Replies: 18
Views: 6495

Re: Contact with Family still in CF

Things took a turn September 2023 and now Christmas has passed I really don't want anyting to do with them. I need to protect myself and protect my son. I just don't know how many chances they deserve. I can relate. With regards to family in the fellowship, I've decided that if they really want to ...
by Dexter
Mon Jan 08, 2024 6:16 pm
Forum: Shunning and Isolation
Topic: Contact with Family still in CF
Replies: 18
Views: 6495

Re: Contact with Family still in CF

Vic actually yelled to the congregation from the pulpit “don’t you even dare to have a long weekend holiday as you are all to be here”.
You know, the more I learn about that guy the more I don't care for him.

https://youtu.be/jH4hMvj5E28?si=kvo6GG0IckZlwGc-
by Dexter
Sat Jan 06, 2024 1:43 am
Forum: Doctrine and Teaching
Topic: Everything you need to know about Lampstand Churches™
Replies: 21
Views: 5714

Re: Everything you need to know about Lampstand Churches™

I don't ever remember actually seeing people from PNG. Liuaki was the only one though, I didn't see any other PNG-ians at BCF. A larger group of PNGers visited Brisbane in the mid 90s. I don't know if they traveled to other areas as well. As far as I know that's the only time an extended group visi...
by Dexter
Fri Jan 05, 2024 10:31 am
Forum: General ...
Topic: What is Happening at BCF?
Replies: 14
Views: 21051

Re: What is Happening at BCF?

Can't help but think of that Galatians verse: "Who has bewitched you?"
by Dexter
Fri Jan 05, 2024 10:28 am
Forum: General ...
Topic: What is Happening at BCF?
Replies: 14
Views: 21051

Re: What is Happening at BCF?

With respect to you (not shooting the messenger), that's a stupid strategy. They've already brainwashed these kids since infancy to be unquestioningly compliant airheads who will do anything you tell them. How are the dating couple supposed to know it's "just a test" and not a direct word ...
by Dexter
Fri Jan 05, 2024 3:45 am
Forum: Doctrine and Teaching
Topic: Everything you need to know about Lampstand Churches™
Replies: 21
Views: 5714

Re: Everything you need to know about Lampstand Churches™

Sorry, I might be a bit slow. What's the Christian Pub test?