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by Wendy
Fri Jun 22, 2018 5:22 pm
Forum: Library
Topic: Dawn Smith on leaving her parent’s church (cult)
Replies: 2
Views: 7626

Re: Dawn Smith on leaving her parent’s church (cult)

Yep ... The hardest day of freedom is better than the best day in the cult ... Great comment and oh so true!

So may similarities with the xCF cult.
by Wendy
Fri May 25, 2018 9:46 pm
Forum: Doctrine and Teaching
Topic: Vic Hall and Order of Melchizedek
Replies: 17
Views: 24337

Re: Vic Hall and Order of Melchizedek

I don't wonder where it went wrong - I wonder if it was right in the first place. When the original leadership is a philandering adulterous control freak whose mistress is his 2IC's wife and the 2IC is also having affairs with various members of the congregation - what kind of a foundation is that f...
by Wendy
Fri May 04, 2018 11:05 pm
Forum: Doctrine and Teaching
Topic: Vic Hall and Order of Melchizedek
Replies: 17
Views: 24337

Re: Vic Hall and Order of Melchizedek

So BCF thought the other churches would come and join them too, Faith? 😄... Shades of MCF and the One Church, one communion nonsense. We too thought they would be thronging - you thought Lang Park? Nah, at MCF there was talk of filling the MCG! 😂 And very funny, BR ... You're obviously up and about ...
by Wendy
Sun Apr 29, 2018 10:33 pm
Forum: Doctrine and Teaching
Topic: Vic Hall and Order of Melchizedek
Replies: 17
Views: 24337

Re: Vic Hall and Order of Melchizedek

Thanks, Faith! Great overview of the heresy that Vic expounds - and of course he stole it from the originator of the xCFs - Ray Jackson senior. Ray was on about the O o M from the beginning of his 'new teaching' the Ephesian Pattern - the Shepherding Movement in disguise. He linked the two and usual...
by Wendy
Sat Mar 24, 2018 11:01 pm
Forum: Library
Topic: BR (Boundary Rider) is unwell and has had several visits to hospital
Replies: 15
Views: 21086

Re: BR (Boundary Rider) is unwell and has had several visits to hospital

Good to see you are back and tilting at those windmills, BR! 😄
by Wendy
Wed Mar 07, 2018 10:21 pm
Forum: Doctrine and Teaching
Topic: An absurd Sunday School song
Replies: 2
Views: 5638

An absurd Sunday School song

I'm not sure if this belongs in this section but you can learn a lot about a group's teaching by listening to the songs they sing so for some light relief I'd thought share a Sunday school offering song sung in the 70s at BCF. A friend and I were wandering down memory lane with regard to the songs w...
by Wendy
Fri Mar 02, 2018 5:20 pm
Forum: Library
Topic: BR (Boundary Rider) is unwell and has had several visits to hospital
Replies: 15
Views: 21086

Re: BR (Boundary Rider) is unwell and has had several visits to hospital

Please send him my best wishes too - hope he is up and about soon.
by Wendy
Wed Feb 07, 2018 10:49 am
Forum: What is spiritual abuse?
Topic: TRUTHING IN LOVE
Replies: 15
Views: 19808

Re: TRUTHING IN LOVE

Hi Paul It looks like you were getting in just as I was getting out! Yes, I hope it doesn't take that long for you either. I can only say it does get better. I've never believed the old adage of "time heals" - it doesn't. It just gives distance from the events and an opportunity to look at...
by Wendy
Fri Jan 26, 2018 1:50 pm
Forum: What is spiritual abuse?
Topic: TRUTHING IN LOVE
Replies: 15
Views: 19808

Re: TRUTHING IN LOVE

Hi Paul Thank you for sharing your struggles with us. I've been thinking about how to answer because it has been a while since I left. Some triggers remain but overall life is pretty damn good! One of the things that kept me sane after the madness of MCF was, as you have already expressed, getting b...
by Wendy
Wed Dec 20, 2017 11:24 am
Forum: What is spiritual abuse?
Topic: And so this is Christmas ...
Replies: 7
Views: 12541

And so this is Christmas ...

I was just thinking about those of you who experience the extra heartbreak at Christmas of being separated from family and others because of shunning. Although we might empathise, many of us have no idea of the pain you have gone through and are still going through. I wanted to let you know that you...