7 Blessing Wedding
Posted: Wed Mar 13, 2024 8:32 pm
I recently attended a stock standard church wedding with the typical readings from Psalm 145, 1 Corinthians 12 & 13, Matthew 22. AS I sat and just listened to the scripture I could not help but think:
* how uncomplicated this was
* what would life be like for members of CF if they lived like the scriptures talk about.
The passage from 1 Corinthians really hit home LOVE IS... I challenge anyone from Brisbane, Melbourne, Sydney or whatever other Christian Fellowship to please explain how is cutting someone off LOVE. It certainly doesn't represent any Christlike behavior I have read in the gospels. I dare any leader to publicly talk about and post online how their definition of LOVE matches that of Jesus. Let Vic's word pass the Christian pub test with an unbiased 2 witnesses (John 8:17)
Thankfully I was not married under the 7 blessings that Vic invented (I have heard that this has been done away with and a new marriage service created but can not confirm) But I do remember attending a few of them, there was nothing personal for the couple in that wedding. Its quite sad actually. However a stark difference I noticed was this in the wedding I attended there was not this underlying tone that the husband was the authoritarian figure of the house that the wife was completely in submission to. This way of thinking leads to domestic violence.
While I am not interested in having a debate about the different theological understandings of the headship model that the way it is taught and understood in CF is a fast lane for abuse. My personal opinion is that husband and wife are equal in the relationship. I respect my wife and we make decisions about our family together. Like in any other relationship we have strengths and weakness so we navigate life by listening and learning from each other. I believe this to actually be more inline with the way of Jesus. It is often over looked how important the women were in both Jesus' and the early church ministry.
* how uncomplicated this was
* what would life be like for members of CF if they lived like the scriptures talk about.
The passage from 1 Corinthians really hit home LOVE IS... I challenge anyone from Brisbane, Melbourne, Sydney or whatever other Christian Fellowship to please explain how is cutting someone off LOVE. It certainly doesn't represent any Christlike behavior I have read in the gospels. I dare any leader to publicly talk about and post online how their definition of LOVE matches that of Jesus. Let Vic's word pass the Christian pub test with an unbiased 2 witnesses (John 8:17)
Thankfully I was not married under the 7 blessings that Vic invented (I have heard that this has been done away with and a new marriage service created but can not confirm) But I do remember attending a few of them, there was nothing personal for the couple in that wedding. Its quite sad actually. However a stark difference I noticed was this in the wedding I attended there was not this underlying tone that the husband was the authoritarian figure of the house that the wife was completely in submission to. This way of thinking leads to domestic violence.
While I am not interested in having a debate about the different theological understandings of the headship model that the way it is taught and understood in CF is a fast lane for abuse. My personal opinion is that husband and wife are equal in the relationship. I respect my wife and we make decisions about our family together. Like in any other relationship we have strengths and weakness so we navigate life by listening and learning from each other. I believe this to actually be more inline with the way of Jesus. It is often over looked how important the women were in both Jesus' and the early church ministry.